Yesterday in my post I mentioned that I hated the metro. Couldnt´stand it. For all those who need a refresher, please see previous post. Let me tell you about this metro.
From where I live, I take the main hub to get to anywhere. It´s less than a block from my house, which is incredibly convenient. One station for the trains, buses, cabs, subway, everything. All in one. It´s the Meijer of metro stops. HOWEVER, it´s also very confusing, and crowded with stores and people and cigarette smoke. The bathrooms are filthy, and are is often a common hang out for teenagers and bums. Not that I live in a junky part of town, the metro stop just isnt´my favorite place to hang out.
So - every day I walk the block to the metro stop, make my way thru the crowds of people who are just as confused as I was 5 days ago, push past the people asking me for money, and slide my 7 euro ticket (it´s good for 10 trips) thru a slot in a machine, who then tells me how many more trips I have left and graciously opens the gates for me into the depths of the city. I pick my train (the Linia 5, Horta direccion) and begin my decent down the 3 flights of stairs, across the walkway, over a train track overpass, and onto the platform to wait anywhere from 20 sec to 7 minutes for my train. It´s hot, and dark, and stale air fills my lungs, and all I want is to get out of the station, but I know that I have at least 3 stops until I get to where I´m going. With a rush of something resembling a breeze, the train pulls up, screeches to a halt, and the transfer of passengers commences. I then clammor onto the train, elbowing my way in, and find a patch of metal pole to cling to as the train speeds up and stops like a teenager learning how to drive. All around me people are talking in a different language, bumping up against me, arms are everywhere as we all try to keep our balance, and I just count down the stops. 3 more, 2 more, last one Chandi, okay, out you go! Then it´s a matter of pushing past the wall of human limbs, falling onto the platform, and joining the river of people rushing towards the exit.
Once I get caught up in the tide and carried up another 3-5 flights of stairs, I´m greeted by rushing cold air and the clanging sound of the gates shutting as every one of the 50 - 300 people goes thru the metal bars individually. The slamming of the metal rings thru my ears as I climb YET ANOTHER flight of stairs to be dropped off finally on street level to catch some fresh air and a bit of space.
So - there´s the metro. Dark, crowded, and yet and incredibly lonely place. Except for last night . . .
Last night we met up at Placa Catalunya, which is a dreadful 3 transfers and 7 stops away from where I live. So, with lacking enthusiasm I make the previously described treck to my platform and wait. I pick a spot on a bench nxt to a vending machine and sit, as I have 6 minutes until the next train, according the the countdown. And along comes this freak.
He´s an older guy, who walks by, eyes me up, walks a little farther down, and then begins pacing in front of me, each pass getting shorter and shorter, like a pendulum, until he stops in front of the vending machine and pretends to take a picture of it with his phone, backing up so he can ¨get the whole thing in¨ - So I move.
I have 4 minutes now and I´m standing in a crowded (don´t worry Moms, it was crowded, I wasn´t alone) platform, the weirdo has taken my seat on the bench, and I´m getting pretty impatient for the train. 3:39 left and the dude gets up and starts pacing again, shorter and shorter until he gets near me, so I move again. this continues for the next 3 and a half minutes. But I´m a smart cookie. So, finally, I stop moving, but keep him at a good distance, and the train arrives, and just when we are about to board, I move again and switch cars. Whooo hoo! No more weirdo. Now, I told you this not to freak you out Mom and all of Chandi´s adopted moms out there. I told you because the story takes a drastic change after this.
On my third and last exchange I get off the train and hop on the escalator (I´m in heels, no WAY am I doing stairs!!) and these people in front of me are obviously american! So, I mention that they don´t sound like locals, and the guy says ¨why, where are you from?" Why, Kalamazoo, I responded. He was from GRAND RAPIDS!!! Small world, you think? It gets better.
So I chat with the fam up the stairs, meet up with my friends, have a nice night (which I´ll tell you about later) and at 1:30 have to catch the metro back home. The trains stop at 2, so we´re ina bit of a rush. I hop the first exchange with my friends, get off, head to the next train platform and hear this girl talking on the phone in English. She hangs up and I ask her where she´s from, Conneticut, and I tell her I´m from Michigan and she starts to cry because she was so relieved to find an American. We talked for the length of the next train ride about being here, and alone, and not being big city girls, and the goods and the bads and what not, and I got off at my last exchange and had to run to catch the last train. And missed it.
BUT - there was another one. Juan and his friend (who both spoke very little English, but between the three of us we managed a conversation) helped me find the very last train heading out that night and waited with me on the platform until the metro came so I wasn´t standing there alone, one of 3 people total waiting to catch this train. We chatted for a bit and they asked me where I was from, I said ¨kalamazoo¨and a voice from across the way said ¨Michigan!!¨ Do you believe this????? The train came, Juan and his buddy took off to go clubbing once they saw me safely on the train, and I turned to the guy from Michigan. Apparently he studied Dentistry at U of M! He knew Kalamazoo because he used to go to the zoo in Battle Creek, and stopped in Kzoo for food.
now, my view of the metro hasn´t changed all that drastically, but my view of the world quickly is. If I had finshed that night with the memory of the freak in my head when I crawled under the covers I would think that the world, especially as deep into as the metro goes, is a freakish place - I´d have felt icky and gross and just wanted to shed myself of everything metro. But- instead I crawled under the covers amazed at how small the world is that there would be, in one night, three americans, two of them michiganders, and such nice people willing to help a person find their way to the best train. It brings me back to the ¨things I´ve learned¨section of yesterday - people over all are good. All they are looking for is a connection, something they can share with someone, some sort of relationship, so that we aren´t so all alone. And perhaps, although it´s dirty and scary at times, the metro isn´t a horrible place (I´ll still be careful Moms and Dads), It´s a place crammed with a bunch of people, all walking solitarily thru this world, until that arm bumps you, or a voice peaks your interest, and then suddenly the 7 minutes standing on the platform, and the 3 transfers and the 7 stops, aren´t so stale and musty, but instead are welcoming and intriguing and a bit of home found in the least likely of places.
Last night we didn´t go dancing, the clubs weren´t open yet, we got their too early. But we went to the Olympic village, and we sat at a bar on the beach of the Mediterranean Sea. We drank Sangria, we chatted, and we watched the fireworks that they do on Friday nights. It wasn´t quite like being on Lake Michigan on the 4th, but I don´t know that I would want it to be. The evening was just enough American for me to feel a little more comforatble, and reminded me that no matter how many miles away from kalamazoo I am, I will never be far from home.